While sitting in the train and waiting for Christabel at Yio Chu Kang MRT, I realised something, something that might make you admit this theory.

Theory: People are good-looking and attractive by different aspects.

I realise that strangers, friends and acquaintances are all attractive in different ways. This can only be realise if you actually observe your surrounding people.

Okay, let's start with strangers.

Strangers #1
She's a girl I saw at the MRT. Her skin was quite dark. She had a light layer of foundation on her face. She had straight hair and was wearing a number of accessories. I found her attractive and good looking.

Stranger #2
This is a guy that we (me + a friend)saw from a distance, playing tennis/badminton, couldn't really see. But we actually found him good looking although we couldn't see the face (we could barely see if they were using shuttle cocks or tennis balls. The way he carry himself on the court and the way he seems that he's enjoying his game and his body actually can make us think he's good looking.

Friend #1
This is a friend of mine, I shan't say who but is quite obvious. He isn't actually that good looking in terms of face due to pirahnna-like teeth. But after knowing him for like almost a year, I actually found him attractive and quite 'zai'. This may be because he was one of the very few who got promoted to NP *first hint*, got top in cohort for a couple of subjects, fillial to parents (he hugs his mother when she wakes up), his mind control his words so it won't hurt anyone, and lastly, he is willing to give up just for someone else; altruism. This actually made me forget about the pirahnna teeth and make him actually quite attractive.

Friend #2
This is another friend of mine. She didn't actually attracted me at first, but after knowing her for about a year, she's quite significant now. Some factors that made me think she's attractive; perhaps her flute playing skills, her humour that is able to make everyone laugh, her clear complexion, her beutiful eyes, and her will to learn. She is able to rise up to the occasion and will improve tremendously. This proves how zai she is. And if someone knew her better, you would get attracted to her too!

Friend #3
This is another friend of mine. His face was rather typical at first, but after I realise his inner beauty, I actually found him very unique and attractive. His saxophone skills can outwit anyone who is at his age. His skills are just very overpowering till it can impress. From then on, I found him attractive and that girls will go crazy over him.

Friend #4
After observing him closely, I realised that his personality is really fun to be with and isn't as suckish as I thought. His looks and body might mean something, but his personality is much bigger.

Acquintance #1
This might be abit negative but yeah. I shouldn't be detailed. At first when I knew him. He was very handsome, a few of my friends said so. Then after knowing his true self, I started to think that he's not really that handsome afterall.

Acquintance #2
This is similar to #1. First impression, wow, eyecandy. Great voice + Great looks. But after sometimes knowing it. It just got sian and he isn't good looking afterall. This has been agreed by those who actually had the good first impression of him too.

Acquintance #3
I dunno to put this person under stranger or friend. This person used to be my role model. My aspiration. He was good musically, a good leader, very trustworthy. But after I realise his lack of responsibility, I don't find him attractive anymore. Although his skills really damn zhai. =/

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The above situation are real situations where me and my friends actually encounter. This proves my theory that, aspects of one person can actually affect your entire impression of him/her. So always remember to good at the brighter side of things instead of the shaded sight.

When there's a shadow, there's always the sun.

We, as humans, are more frequent to look at the bad side in life, especially when you look at someone. Always think that you're face the part that is shadowed and if you move a few steps, you can actually see the sun.

This is what I learn and now, I look at people with a whole new perspective. People that I use to find aren't attracive are now attractive with their own reasons. (:

Cheers!
(I will not mention any of the above person unless you are a very good friend. (:)